I'm going to be mushy and tell you about my boyfriend and why he is so amazing. Men- this is your example. He's not perfect... but he's perfect for me.
1) He says "I love you" like ten times a day and likes to give "hug ambushes"
2) He supports me no matter what and tells me he is proud of me. He always makes sure I have what I need and is always thinking of me. Like one time he was studying at the business school and they were giving away free stuff for an event and he brought me a Diet Coke because it had a heart on it and he knows I love it.
3) We can talk about anything. Nothing is off limits and there is no judging. "if it makes you happy..." is our motto.
4) When I get frustrated that my apartment is messy and start cleaning, if he is over he almost always says "just sit down and relax".
5) I know I can trust him 100%
6) He takes time to get to know my family.
7) He is super duper smart and driven. He is in law school.
8) He indulges my silly pleasures like getting silhouette's drawn at Disneyland and watching funny animal videos. One time while he was studying he called me and told me I needed to get on youtube right away and watch a video he found. It was of a puppy trying to climb stairs.
9) On the night Barack Obama was elected we were both ELATED and full of joy. It was the night we had waited two years for and worked so hard for. Yet in California my boyfriend held me and we cried in silence over the passage of prop 8.
10) I can wear sweatpants and a ponytail everyday if I want and it doesn't matter.
11) His first big gift to me was a necklace from Tiffany's.
12) He calls me everyday before bed if we aren't together. Even if he was just at my place.
13) He calls me "his lovely". I love it.
14) He sends me texts randomly just to say "I love you" "I miss you" etc.
15) I can be myself around him.
I could continue but I would be writing forever. This is for you boo.